Hi James Patrick, you painted a very realistic picture of what dating is like with people other than your age. On the one hand, I’m lucky to be able to get dates/hookups with guys in their 20s and 30s. To them, I’ll always be known as a “daddy.” On the other hand, many just expect we’ll have money. I haven’t been so lucky. With those my age, it’s easy to agree to go Dutch. There are reasons to seek guys 10 years +/- my age. They get it. And they all get Victor/Victoria! Good luck out there. Loved your story.