OK, from what I can surmise from your article, you lost out on 5 or 6 years. 5 or 6 years. Even if it's 7 or 8 years. That's not much time. Get to know some or your gay "seniors" who lost 10, 20 30 or even more years because of the social stigma attached, or the fear of contracting HIV/AIDS. You had a relationship at 20! What could you have possibly missed?

Love,

Dad